Friday, October 12, 2012

Fifteen-Minute Fix #2: Self-Care for a Speeding Life



Photo by Anne LaBrie: John's Car


Lately I’ve noticed that my life seems to be speeding up and I feel as if I’m trying to catch up with it.  In those moments I think that if I could just go a little faster and cram a little more into my day, I’ll actually get it all done so that the next day will be easier.  It takes a few days (or even weeks) to realize that there is always even more stuff to do! This is when I know I need a little relaxation-intervention.

Find a guided meditation tape that’s not too long, maybe 15 minutes -- and program it into your iportable device.  Don’t get mad at yourself if this step takes a week – you’re moving toward a goal!  Pick a time and listen to it. Try to aim for every day for the first 21 days.  If this feels like too many days in a row, ignore it and do what you can – you’re moving          toward a goal!

I find it best the very first thing in the morning – even before getting out of bed. I set my alarm for 15-minutes earlier and just plug in my headphones and listen.  It seems to help me set my intention for the day.  It is astonishing to me how much easier my days go when I’ve done this first.  I don’t forget my keys, there’s no line in the grocery store, traffic moves freely.  All the little things that can trip me up and add stress to my day just seem to happen less frequently. And even if stuff does happen, it doesn’t bug me as much!

Another great time to listen to the meditation is before going to bed.  That way, I’m actually thinking good thoughts before I go to sleep instead of all the things I didn’t get done in the day!  Either way, life will slowly get better.  And isn’t that worth fifteen minutes?

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